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I am exhausted and packing for my trip. If you want my atten..

I am exhausted and packing for my trip. If you want my attention, tip me, because I have no time now unless you plan tip or unlock for my time.

In 3 days, I haul my 82-year-old dad and my kiddo on a crazy..

In 3 days, I haul my 82-year-old dad and my kiddo on a crazy expat journey to the Philippines.

I suddenly have intense anxiety and could use a hug.

Friday night and I'm packing for my trip to Asia this week.

Friday night and I'm packing for my trip to Asia this week.

Getting ready for the big move to the Philippines 🌏 🌴#expatl..

Getting ready for the big move to the Philippines 🌏 🌴
#expatlife #expat #philippines #Over50AndFabulous

Good morning and happy Thursday!! 👋Is OF being a little bitc..

Good morning and happy Thursday!! 👋
Is OF being a little bitch to you too?

Let me know what kind of glitches you've been experiencing so I can get a sense of what's going on! Vote below! 👇

Less than one week til I leave for my Asia trip... ooohhhh, ..

Less than one week til I leave for my Asia trip... ooohhhh, say hi in the DMs

I spent ALL DAY in Chicago getting an urgent new passport ye..

I spent ALL DAY in Chicago getting an urgent new passport yesterday because the old one went missing and I leave for the Philippines next week.

I am EXHAUSTED.

NOT A PODCAST PODCAST: I NEED ADVICE EDITION!!When you wake ..

NOT A PODCAST PODCAST: I NEED ADVICE EDITION!!

When you wake up in the morning after having the most stressful week in years, coffee helps.

I am sorry if I am not as available as I usually am on the account. It's been a rough week and I am a little sad right now and not afraid to talk about it.

That being said, I truly need advice and insight and maybe a swift kick in the tuchas to get me out of this funk

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Cold days and long hours at work can be a tough combo, but d..

Cold days and long hours at work can be a tough combo, but don’t forget: your health should always come first. Take time to recharge, sip on warm tea or soup, and layer up to stay cozy. A little self-care goes a long way to keep sickness at bay. Rest when you can, and listen to your body—it’s your best investment.

The cold is biting today—are you feeling it too, or do you h..

The cold is biting today—are you feeling it too, or do you have someone or something keeping you warm?

Hot, steamy showers help warm me up a little, but it got me ..

Hot, steamy showers help warm me up a little, but it got me thinking— how do you manage to stay warm in those freezing temperatures?

Wow… I’m coming up on my 3rd anniversary on OnlyFans, and ho..

Wow… I’m coming up on my 3rd anniversary on OnlyFans, and honestly, I still can’t believe I’ve lasted this long. At 55, I never thought I’d be here, thriving in a space like this, just being my real, messy, hot-mess self.

But this platform has been such a game-changer—not just for me, but for women my age who want to embrace their confidence, have fun, and connect with amazing people.

To everyone who’s been part of this wild journey: thank you for supporting me, seeing me, and proving that age is just a number.

Every sadness, happiness, and experience pushes you toward y..

Every sadness, happiness, and experience pushes you toward your path. I am grateful for the good, bad, and things in between. Without pain, we cannot see joy. Without gratitude, we cannot grow beyond our limitations.

Each tear teaches us the value of laughter. Each disappointment shows us what truly matters. Each heartbreak opens us to deeper love. Without these contrasts, life would be a flat line instead of the beautiful, messy masterpiece it is.

So I thank every moment that shaped me - the ones that broke me and the ones that rebuilt me. They all led me here, to this version of myself who understands that even the darkest nights hold stars we couldn't see otherwise.

And in that gratitude, I find freedom

Living that work-from-home life: jammies all day and coffee ..

Living that work-from-home life: jammies all day and coffee on repeat.

Just up from my nap, messy hair and all, in my messy basemen..

Just up from my nap, messy hair and all, in my messy basement while I try to pack for my trip... this is what real almost 56-year-old women look like.

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Being an OnlyFans creator isn’t just about content—it’s abou..

Being an OnlyFans creator isn’t just about content—it’s about consistency, connection, and so much more.

I THINK THIS D*MNED SITE IS DOWN AGAIN. SENDING OUT CRAZY DE..

I THINK THIS D*MNED SITE IS DOWN AGAIN. SENDING OUT CRAZY DEALS AND GOING BACK TO BED.

LET ME KNOW IF YOU'RE HAVING ISSUES.

It’s been feeling a little too cold lately, and I’m open to ..

It’s been feeling a little too cold lately, and I’m open to suggestions on how to warm up in my DMs.

Send me your best idea—I promise, if it’s good enough to really heat things up, I might just have a little naughty surprise waiting for you.

Sometimes the best views are from behind.

Sometimes the best views are from behind.

Living here means dressing for all four seasons in one day a..

Living here means dressing for all four seasons in one day and never trusting the forecast. Who else is surviving this Midwest chaos?

Taking some time to pamper myself—because even at 55, I beli..

Taking some time to pamper myself—because even at 55, I believe in self care no matter the season.

If you're not already bundled up, make sure to bring warm cl..

If you're not already bundled up, make sure to bring warm clothes! It wasn’t snowing when I left for my appointment, but it was when I finished. Stay warm, everyone!

2025 is my year for peace. I’m letting go of what I can’t co..

2025 is my year for peace. I’m letting go of what I can’t control and embracing calm every moment.

New Year, new goals... what’s your resolution?

New Year, new goals... what’s your resolution?

What’s the one thing you’d want to learn from a 55-year-old ..

What’s the one thing you’d want to learn from a 55-year-old woman?

If you’re braving this polar vortex like I do, don’t forget ..

If you’re braving this polar vortex like I do, don’t forget the essentials: layer up, keep moving, and sip on something warm.

Lazy weekends or wild ones?

Lazy weekends or wild ones?

I stocked up on wood to ensure I stayed hot when the electri..

I stocked up on wood to ensure I stayed hot when the electricity went out. How do you all stay toasty for those currently experiencing the cold temps?

The year is just getting started, and I’m already feeling ex..

The year is just getting started, and I’m already feeling excited for what’s ahead.

How’s your New Year going so far?

Should we end the year with a bang?

Should we end the year with a bang?