Guys, due to an influx of messages about it and general appa..
Added 2024-12-14 23:41:08 +0000 UTCGuys, due to an influx of messages about it and general apparent confusion — I am not attracted to feedees. As in I am actively Not Attracted, it is a Deal Breaker for me sexually. It’s not personal — I also don’t intend to have any kind of co-op with others for this reason. I do not have any advice nor is this an outlet for seeking support on the matter. I am not a feeder. I’m very actively only involved with people who are feeders. More power to you, do whatever you like, but have respect for the fact it’s plainly displayed in my information and that I frequently express my preferences and why these ‘collabs’ or ‘mutual arrangements’ aren’t an option. I’m a one feedee show, full stop, and I find treating me as if I’m an implied feeder based on my own attraction and habits disturbing.
It’s insensitive.
Sorry for my serious tone, but it has been continuous and it is steeply discouraging to have only that sort of interaction waiting in the inbox. (ie. ‘You’re making me wanna eat’ or ‘my treats for the day are—‘ or ‘Jackie here’s my update pic’ or ‘will you ever do like a contest/session/relationship with another feedee’ or ‘teehee just thought we could inspire each other’ — this is a wide range of interaction that I have always expressed not being available for.) Please take these interests back to your own outlets and circles — my page has always been an individual one. You’re welcome here, but do not expect me to engage or to have no reaction when these things are treated as back burner at best.
Thank you as always to everyone for your time and respect in getting to know me and my work ✨💕💝💕✨ And again, no personal animosity at any individuals, so no sweat if you’ve said the sort of thing before, but it’s, again, overwhelmingly hurtful and awkward for me to be put so repeatedly in that position.
—J.J. xoxox
[ps. Best of luck with the winter blues, folks, keep cozy ✨💝💙💕❄️✨]
