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My neighbors are loud with the karaoke

My neighbors are loud with the karaoke

Went to a 7-course Nigerian fusion dinner event with drummin..

Went to a 7-course Nigerian fusion dinner event with drumming, storytelling, and wine pairings.

The price for the exclusive 16 person (max) event- a whopping 50 bucks per human.

It was incredible.

Life in the Philippines is so much fun!

Muumuu time in my custom-made mahogany daybed, with handwove..

Muumuu time in my custom-made mahogany daybed, with handwoven Inabel Ilocano blankets and Japanese hand-painted pillows.

The bed cost 170 from a local furniture maker here in the Philippines. The blankets cost about 10 bucks and do did the pillows.

Shopping locally and sustainably is good for the economy and for expats.

just hanging out in a hammock...

just hanging out in a hammock...

My new bouganvilleas at my house in the Philippines.These am..

My new bouganvilleas at my house in the Philippines.

These amazing tropical beauties have the sting of roses, are hardy and prolific, and need constant pruning.

They also symbolize prosperity and immortality...

I had bulalo, a Filipino beef marrow soup, next to a live vo..

I had bulalo, a Filipino beef marrow soup, next to a live volcano today in the Philippines.

Taal Volcano is world famous for its freshwater lake and island within.

It has a beautiful Hawaii-like climate in the Tagaytay Highlands of Southern Luzon.

Night time is the right time for laying like a sloth on the ..

Night time is the right time for laying like a sloth on the couch... and it is night time here in the Philippines

Ask me for this bundle

Ask me for this bundle

in the car to Manila.

in the car to Manila.

It's nighttime in the Philippines, and you can hear karaoke ..

It's nighttime in the Philippines, and you can hear karaoke from all the houses on a Saturday night.

Seriously. Everyone seems to have a beautiful singing voice. One neighbor was singing Elvis, and I thought he was playing an album, but he stepped onto his balcony, and it WAS LIKE A CONCERT IN VEGAS with impersonators.

So cool.

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My Filipino daster (muumuu/house dress) game is on point.I a..

My Filipino daster (muumuu/house dress) game is on point.

I am still adjusting to the time differences, the heat fluctuations (and just the heat), the different cultural and electrical issues, and just basically getting my new life together.

Hit me up in the DMs. I think this site is being glitchy as usual... or even moreso

THROWBACK THURSDAY xoxo

THROWBACK THURSDAY xoxo

The workers just left, but now I have lights in the stairwel..

The workers just left, but now I have lights in the stairwell.

Things take longer in the Philippines, it has an entirely different rhythm.

More about it and other expat DIY projects in SE Asia in the kinda podcast:

Good skincare is EVERYTHING... for all genders and ages. Cel..

Good skincare is EVERYTHING... for all genders and ages.
Celebrate the skin you're in! 🤍

BTW, the top I am wearing is called a "Maria Clara" shawl. It's a traditional Spanish-Filipina mestiza shawl top.

SE Asia expat vibes be like...

SE Asia expat vibes be like...

I'm online, it's noon in the Philippines... come say hi to m..

I'm online, it's noon in the Philippines... come say hi to me in the DMs.

Good morning from the Philippines ☀️ say Hi in the DMs xoxo

Good morning from the Philippines ☀️
say Hi in the DMs xoxo

YAY or NAY on the grey??

YAY or NAY on the grey??

STORYTIME- HOW I COULD HAVE BURNT DOWN THE ENTIRE NEIGHBORHO..

STORYTIME- HOW I COULD HAVE BURNT DOWN THE ENTIRE NEIGHBORHOOD 🙃

Yesterday I woke up to no power and it turns out my electric meter decided to have a meltdown (literally). It EXPLODED and BURNED. Think fireworks, but less festive and more "potential neighborhood-wide disaster." 😅

Turns out, our electrical system was ancient and it decided to stage a dramatic exit. 🔥 after 16+ hours of no power in the blazing heat, the amazing electricians got me back up and running. silver lining? We're the first in our complex with a Euro/American electrical and grounding system!

If you want to contribute to the "I'm not an arsonist" fund (aka the electrician's bill), tips are greatly appreciated! 😉
All tips will receive a special little something... 😈

Swipe to see my unimpressed reaction to the whole ordeal.

I've gone native here in the Philippines... they call this a..

I've gone native here in the Philippines... they call this a 'duster'. I call it more muumuus for my ever growing collection of jammies hahahahaha

IT'S MY 56TH VALENTINES BIRTHDAY!!Everyone who tips me will ..

IT'S MY 56TH VALENTINES BIRTHDAY!!

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today is MY 56th BIRTHDAY!!I am celebrating it in the Philip..

today is MY 56th BIRTHDAY!!

I am celebrating it in the Philippines. Happy Valentine's everyone xoxo

Feeling better today! Come say hi and I may even go live lat..

Feeling better today! Come say hi and I may even go live later. 😘

super glam at a provincial hospital in the Philippines with ..

super glam at a provincial hospital in the Philippines with pneumonia

https://of.tv/v/fvXcKLIFE OVER 50: 56 Yr. Old Expat Flees US..

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LIFE OVER 50: 56 Yr. Old Expat Flees US: True $$ Exposed

I'm leaving the U.S. at 56—and I’m taking my 82-year-old dad and 10-year-old kid with me. Life in the U.S. has become too expensive, and it's time for a change. In this teaser, I reveal why we’re moving to the Philippines and how much cheaper it is to renovate a house there than struggling with U.S. prices. This is just the beginning. I’ll be breaking down the real costs, the challenges, and the reality of starting over abroad. No sugarcoating—just facts, real numbers, and a behind-the-scenes look at what it takes to escape the high cost of living in America. Follow along to see how we’re making this move happen, what it really costs, and whether expat life is worth it.

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🌴 Touchdown in PH!! 🌴A new chapter begins as I start my expa..

🌴 Touchdown in PH!! 🌴
A new chapter begins as I start my expat adventure!
I'm so excited to call this beautiful country home 🩷

Bring on the warm weather and mouth-watering food!
Watch this space 👀 I'll be sharing my experiences, DIY projects, and general life in the Philippines!

Don't forget to say Hi in the DMs 💋💋

Packing done!!

Packing done!!

NOT A PODCAST PODCAST: MY SISTER DIED TODAY(photo cropped fo..

NOT A PODCAST PODCAST: MY SISTER DIED TODAY

(photo cropped for privacy and to maintain OF TOS standards)

Today's episode is different and deeply personal. My sister passed away just hours ago, and while I wasn't planning to record today, I feel compelled to share some thoughts about sisterhood, loss, and the raw reality of grief.

I want to share some crazy wild stories about her, too.

For those following my journey, you know I'm preparing for a major life change with my upcoming move. Now, while packing boxes and planning futures, life reminds us how quickly everything can change. So let's talk about sisters, about loving fiercely, and how some people live life so loudly and beautifully that the silence they leave behind is deafening...